- Seduction is an art. It takes as much practice as learning a musical
instrument or painting.
- Empathy is essential to seduction. Every woman is different, so tailor
your date, your words and your actions to that specific woman. You must
know what she is thinking before you can offer her the pleasure she craves.
- Read poetry. Notice the imagery, the ambiguity and the sound. Notice how
modern poetry uses colloquial language to achieve all that. Don’t use big
words or cliches. Your language should be "diabolic" (ethos and pathos) like
that of a politician or a poet, not "symbolic" (logos) like that of scientists
and philosophers.
- If she senses that you are seducing her, she will run away. The pace of
your seduction should be slow and the volume should be quiet.
- All women like power in at least one of its many manifestations: money,
status, intelligence, strength, etc. You need at least a little before you can
seduce the most beautiful of women.
- Many girls will tell you that confidence is what they look for, but
nothing will increase your confidence like a successful seduction.
- Insinuation is a must. Only a movie star or a professional athlete
could expect success with a brash line like "let’s go back to my place
and…."
- Don’t be a doormat or a people-pleaser. If you are perceived as weak, you
will never get a girl.
- Always be honest, meaning don’t tell a lie. A lie is something you can get
caught in. Don’t lie about your income, whether you have a girlfriend or not,
whether you are good at sports, etc. Girls can see right through lies.
However, bending the truth to achieve a more poetic effect is absolutely
necessary. Also, most of the time, the correct answer is to say nothing at
all.
- Seducing a woman is like dancing with a woman. Sometimes you hold her
close and sometimes you let her shine on her own and watch. If you are too
clingy, she will feel suffocated. If you let her go and never come back, she
will be insulted.
- Reveal yourself slowly and only when directly asked. Don’t show more of
yourself than she asks for. When the mystery is gone, the seduction is over.
- Girls with boyfriends make excellent targets. If you can seduce a faithful
girlfriend without showing up on the radar, you will have no problem with a
single girl.
- Seduction does not always end in the bedroom. If you seduce a faithful
girlfriend or wife, she may decide to cut off all contact with you when she
realizes that she is in love with you. Mark it as a success and be thankful
that you didn’t have to break up with her.
- Never take anything too seriously. You want to position yourself as a
vacation from other guys–as the perfect summer fling. You are not possessive
or controlling.
- Not every woman can be seduced. College-age girls are especially difficult
because they are the most satisfied with themselves. Younger girls want to
feel mature and older girls want to feel young.
- If the seduction fails for one reason or another, leave a good space of
time before attempting to seduce her again. She must completely forget about
the bad stuff before you can try to revive the old feelings.
- Women can sense fear and weakness very easily. If you have shown fear or
weakness (we all have), it’s time to start over.
- If you use this technique purely for the end result, you probably don’t
have the patience to perform a seduction correctly. Pleasure plays a major
role throughout the process. You are not offering her a chance to sleep with
you, but rather a chance to fall in love.
- Study the biographies, writings and speeches of the world’s greatest
seducers: Erroll Flynn, Casanova, Lord Byron, Charles De Gaulle, Gabriele
D’Annunzio, etc.
- Physically attractive seducers will be able to seduce much faster than
unattractive ones, because the attraction is already there. However,
unattractive men will have an easier time getting close to girls and gaining
access to their hopes and dreams.